Thursday, February 18, 2010

It won't matter how many times you say 'I'm sorry

NAIL IN THE FENCE   



Make sure you read all the way down to the last sentence. (Most importantly the last sentence)



 



There once was a little boy who had a bad




 



temper.



 



His Father gave him a bag of nails




 



and told him that every time he lost his




 



temper, he must hammer a nail into the back




of the fence.
The first day the boy had




driven 37 nails into the fence. Over the next




few weeks, as he learned to control his




anger, the number of nails hammered daily



 



gradually dwindled down.  He discovered  

 



it was easier to hold his temper than to




 



drive those nails into the fence.




Finally the ! day came when the boy didn't




 



lose his temper at all. He told his father




 



about it and the father suggested that the




 



boy now pull out one nail for each day that he
was able to hold
his temper.


 






The days passed and the young boy was finally




able to tell his father that all the nails
were gone. The father took his son by the


 



hand and led him to the fence He said, 'You




 



have done well, my son, but look at the




 



holes in the fence. The fence will never be




 



the same. When you say things in anger,




 



they leave a scar just like this one.  You can put
a knife in a man and draw it out.





 



It won't matter how many times you say 'I'm




 



sorry', the wound is still there.  A verbal




 



wound is as bad as a physical one.




 



Friends are very rare jewels, indeed. They




make you smile and encourage you to succeed.




 



They lend an ear, they share words of praise




 



and they always want to open their hearts to us.'

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